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Marital Assessment Survey

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a. As your spouse talks to you, do you listen just for the facts or do you try to sense how he or she is feeling?

b. When your spouse talks, do you find it difficult to keep your mind on the subject at hand?

c. Do certain topics or phrases your spouse says prejudice you from objectively listening to what is being said?

d. When you are frustrated by what your spouse says, do you try to get the question straightened out immediately?

e. If you feel it would take too much time and effort to understand something, do you go out of your way to avoid hearing about it?

f. When you spouse talks to you, do you try to make him or her think you are paying attention to them when you are not?

g. When your spouse is talking to you, are you easily distracted?

12. On a scale of 1-10, describe your level of commitment to your relationship (1=Not at all, 10=Extremely).

13. If you were to give a letter grade of A, B, C, D, or F, what grade would you give your spouse for their listening skills?

19. Please respond to the items below that apply to your current situation: